The ties that bind

Our lives are dictated for us before we are born. We don’t get to choose our families much less the siblings.

I guess in every family there is that one meddling individual that looks upon their nose at everyone as if they know it all and their life is perfect. . .

I try my best to judge no one and treat others as I would like to be treated. I was taught if I had nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. I mind my own and worry about me and mine. I am the best parent I can be and I served my country and learned how to be self sufficient along with leadership skills. I own my own business, home, car, property, and depend on no one to pay my bills.

Tell me why I have a sibling that thinks she has the right to judge me, talk bad about me, make up false stories to dig me out of my foxhole. Now I was never taught not to poke a bear but it is just common sense. All those cartoons of Winnie the Pooh and him getting into mischief to try and get honey told us not to mess with bee’s. Its common sense!

This individual has the audacity to question my personal integrity and my parenting skills on the daily. They worry my parents by feeding them stories and adding their spin on possible effects. Then I have to deal with my parents approach of what is being discussed and 4th party hear say!

The good Lord tells us to love everyone even from a distance. I do and mind you I stay further than 6 feet away at all times. I avoid them like the plague and I mind my own. Baby Jesus knows that they should look in the mirror and worry about their kid and their problems as a family.

They should stop threatening me and mine when there is more visual evidence against them.