When you have the ex..factor

Everything seemed so nice,started with a kiss and then…

We want shopping and everyone got what they wanted except me. I wanted a fly swatter but they weren’t in season. Who knew?

He pointed at my nose and playfully, well more like a petulant two year old, I licked his finger. He wiped it on my face. Uhmm…not cute or cool at all. That was a bit rude. Who does that?

At first I tried not to dwell on it but I did think it was rude. So day went on and then we ate dinner. It was a gorgeous beautiful dinner. A new experience for the kids and I.

He took us to go get boba tea and we played games and we brought our puzzles. I unboxed our puzzles and took it out of the bag. He threw the empty plastic bag in my face.

Ok me being who I am, am very defensive so I threw the bag at his face. Sorry, not sorry reflex reaction. He threw it once more and at that point I put the bag aside and thought, what was his problem?

This was so out of his character. He was sweet, loving and caring. Never had he even attempted to throw anything at me. He didn’t hold my hand and it dawned on me, that this was the longest time he had ever gone through without saying he loved me. He was the loving guy with nothing but adoration for me. What happened ?

I knew something shifted and I was not liking it. I ask if he was ok but like pinocchio he lied and said he was okay and nothing was wrong. I knew there was more so I told him I didn’t not believe him.

He later told me the ex poo bate had sent him in a bad mood. If these feelings still have an affect on him then maybe he still had feelings for her.

I just can’t win for trying..